Friday, July 4, 2008
Stereotypes
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Everybody Loves Raymond
Monday, June 30, 2008
5 Conflict Styles
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Clean your room, OR ELSE..
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Cheating
Friday, June 27, 2008
Oh, boys
Centripetal versus Centrifugal
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Hooking up
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Equivocation
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Social Penetration Theory
In Comm 101 though, we talked about that being a different theory, the social exchange theory.
Maybe social exchange theory is a bullet under social penetration theory.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Presenting the Self
There are two phenomenons in this chapter that were interesting though. One is when people lie to present themselves better than they are. This would be an interesting study to figure out why people feel they have to lie. Are they not confident enough in what they are to make up more? Where is that line and when does it get crossed? When does someone decide to embelish their story more than they been to?
The other thing I did find interesting is at the end of the chapter, the book talked about how Asian cultures present themselves versus our culture. We are ALL about ourselves.
"Tell me about yourself"
"Well, I am 22, I am Russian, I am a SJSU student, I am fun, I am friendly, etc.."
ME ME ME, right? It seems normal to answer with those answers, until I saw what the book said about Asian cultures, "My parents are the best, My friends and I like to party, My father is stern but supports me." In each of those, the person is still talking about themselves, but in a very different way than we do in the US. It is not self focused. I like this way better.
Monday, June 16, 2008
Drama for your Mama
Friday, June 13, 2008
Sweet Sixteen
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Self and Society
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Chapter 5
Listening
I just read chapter 4. I read about the different components of listening, and the different context where listening is important, and the whole time I was reading it, I kept thinking, "..Yea.. and.. what do I DO about it?"
Then finally at the end, the chapter talked about what I wanted to hear. It talked about the different types of listeners and how to be a better listener. First it was talked about an empathic listener, and I thought, “That is so me!” And then I read on to what a deliberative listener is and I thought, “I do that too!” And with active listening, I do that as well. And I read on and the book said that the best kind of listener uses all three characteristics in appropriate times, so I was pretty happy with myself there!
I also liked the list at the end with 12 ideas to improve listening skills. I think I am very good at most of them. My biggest weakness is the “Avoid distractions” one, especially when I cannot relate to what I am listening to very well. Like today at the doctors, she was telling me all about something, and I felt like because it was a lot of medical jargon, I just could not concentrate and I did not take in everything she said. That’s what I have to work on with listening.